SPIRIT MAN: EP. 5 "LOVE & LUST"

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are we out here somewhere in the hills somewhere and amazing you know we adjust oh man it's a beautiful day it really is like look at this where where else she's trying to make it yeah man how do you differentiate between love versus lust that's actually easy it's not anything like it's not rocket science lust always seeks to satisfy self and love seeks to give wow love serves lust takes so anything that is rooted in lust will always take and everything that is rooted in love will always give wow so many times you find people going to relationships thinking they're in love but it's actually lust but people think lust is only about sexual and physical stuff but if i am only seeking to feel loved and i am not thinking of how i can laugh i am in lust too much shopping huh see life is about what you invested in your partner some people are attracted to beautiful things but that's all it is an attraction it is not a life so what you invest in somebody determines the value of that person to you with this new uh era everything has become digital cool what do you think about the dating apps what are your thoughts on that i'll tell you my issue with dating i know people who've had successful situations but mostly not this is the problem with human nature right especially when it comes not not problem but this is human nature and this is a relationship security in my humble opinion relationships don't work because there's no accountability there is no village of people that the people in the relationship can listen to if they go the wrong way that they can be rebuked and do the right thing see you know so personality is how people are you can't change somebody's personality there are people who are quiet they are people who are loud they are people who are more outgoing personality is god's fingerprint on somebody right yes character is the habits they have the expressions they have whether they're good or bad character can be adjusted but personality cannot be changed so definitely find somebody that fits into where you're going right we always say when i met him or her i knew they were the ones is there such thing as only one person in the world for you to be honest you want me to be honest so you want me to do the christian mingo version 100 honest 100 there's no one person there's the perfect will of god right but we also see in scripture that people that god ordained for people and people didn't do what they needed to do god gave somebody else right yes they are men of god who are born to serve god if they slack on their calling god will take what he gave them and give it to somebody else happens all the time right without a shadow of a doubt there is something about the reap it's the only good bone that grows back i just said something yes so eve being taken out of the rib did not mean adam was without a rib you hear what i'm saying yes is there a a destined partner for sure but if that destined partner doesn't play their part there is somebody else that will play that part right totally as good or ah even maybe better okay yeah because life is about lessons so the one is the one that will love you regardless of your failures the one is the one that will forgive you a million times and forget what just happened the one is the one that is willing to suffer with you that no matter whether they will be with you that is the one not just god told me you know this is the biggest mistake christians have god told me you are my husband god told me or my wife cool let god tell me also right you know what i mean let god tell you also right people don't get married because god said so there's still a human element you're not going to be sleeping in bed with the holy spirit right right it will be with another human being you know so it has to be certain connected to the destiny from the minute women were born they were raised with fairy tales cinders yeah all these amazing princess how do women and men i guess get away from fantasy and embrace the reality of what the relationship actually well fantasy is only fantasy if you're not willing to put in the work anyone that is living a dream is because they worked towards the dream it didn't just happen so you can be a princess if you build a prince well that's deep that's dude you can be a queen if he's indeed a king right and you can be a king if indeed you raise the queen so there's nothing wrong with fairy tales the fairy tale part is it would just happen without you doing anything that is a lie that doesn't exist gotta put in work man put it in work this is the progression of love in the beginning everybody has what we call attractions and emotions it's not really love because love cannot exist without error so you'll be deeply attracted to somebody but love comes into play when you make up your mind to say whether they are bad whether they cheat on me whether they do this i will fight for this now you're in love because love is a decision love is not an emotion uh each one says from the minute i saw him or her i knew that you were the one now three four years later they're in a divorce court they can't even talk they're separate that's how you know that it was a a german band called bolshevik by the way bolshevik is was a maxis group somewhere in germany it's not an insult just in case you think it is you